President Barack Obama has recorded his own “It Gets Better” message for bullied youth:
Like all of you, I was shocked and saddened by the deaths of several young people who were bullied and taunted for being gay and who ultimately took their own lives. As a parent of two daughters it breaks my heart. It’s something that just shouldn’t happen in this country. We’ve got to dispel this myth that bullying is a normal rite of passage, that it’s some inevitable part of growing up. It’s not. We have an obligation to ensure that our schools are safe for all of our kids.
]]>To every young person out there, you need to know that
there are caring adults who can help. I don’t know what it’s like to be
picked on for being gay. But I do know what it’s like to grow up
feeling that sometimes you don’t belong. It’s tough. For a lot of kids,
the sense of being alone, or apart, can just wear on you. And when
you’re teased or bullied, it can seem like somehow you brought it on
yourself for being different or for not fitting in with everybody else.
But what I want to say is this — you are not alone. You didn’t do
anything wrong. You didn’t do anything to deserve being bullied. And
there is a whole world waiting for you filled with possibilities. There
are people out there that love you and care about you just the way you
So if you ever feel like because of bullying, because of what
people are saying, that you’re getting down on yourself, you’ve gotta
make sure to reach out to people you trust. Whether it’s your parents,
teachers, folks that you know care about you just the way you are, you
gotta reach out to them. Don’t feel like you are in this by yourself.
The other thing you need to know is things will get better. And more than that, in time you’re going to see that your differences are a
source of pride and a source of strength. You’ll look back on the
struggles you faced with compassion and wisdom, and that’s not just
gonna serve you, but it’ll help you get involved and make this country
a better place. It’ll mean that you’re more likely to help fight discrimination. Not just against LGBT Americans, but discrimination in
all its forms.
It means you’ll be more likely to understand personally and deeply
why it’s so important as adults that we set an example in our own lives
and that we treat everybody with respect. That we are able to see the
world through other people’s lives and and stand in their shoes. That
we never lose sight of what binds us together.
As a nation, we’re founded on the belief that all of us are equal
and that each of us deserves the freedom to pursue own our version of
happiness, to make the most of our talents, to speak our minds, to not
fit in. Most of all, to be true to ourselves. That’s the freedom that
enriches all of us, that’s what America is all about. And every day, it
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