ben roethlisberger superbowl Ben Roethlisberger, Ashley Harlan confirm engagement; Asks for charity donations in lieu of giftsThough rumor had it Ben Roethlisberger popped the question to Ashley Harlan over the winter holidays, Big Ben remained mum on the situation until now. He confirms to the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette on Wednesday (Apr. 6) that he and Harlan will tie the knot this summer.